Thursday, July 23, 2026

Unsourced Family Trees = Genealogy Slop

ChatGPT has better artistic skills than I do, so I asked it to do the following:

Create an image titled "unsourced family trees = genealogy slop" with a stylized family tree and random genealogy words in a slop whirlwind.

Chat took the initiative to insert some typical "family legends" such as an ancestor of royal blood, a Mayflower ancestor, a witch trial victim. It sprinkled phrases like "somewhere online" and "internet tree" in the whirlwind of slop. And voila, a fun depiction of a hard truth.

Unsourced trees are nothing more than genealogy slop because they get copied and pasted and spread like kudzu. 

Slop is a pretty good description, right?! 

This is my "free space" post for week 30 of Amy Johnson Crow's 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks for 2026.

Monday, July 20, 2026

Ancestor Landing Pages: Cousin Bait!

 

In 2013, I created ancestor landing pages on this genealogy blog to summarize what I've written about specific ancestor families. You can see them arranged (alphabetically by surname) in rows below the title of my blog. I took this screen shot about a month ago, so the numbers in the image are already outdated.

Landing pages are great cousin bait as well as a convenient way of organizing blog posts to tell stories about my ancestral families. When I blog about an ancestor, I add a note and a link on the ancestor landing page that corresponds to that family. And of course having these names on more than one page/post means more opportunities to show up in online searches, especially if I update the landing pages fairly regularly.

All these years later, each of the landing pages has attracted thousands of views and sometimes comments from cousins or possible cousins who are (or might be) related to that part family. Each week, each landing page gets anywhere from 10 to 50 views--potential connections with cousins and maybe researchers seeking info on these surnames.

Ranking my landing pages from most visited to least:

  • McClure, Donegal - 7,275 views (this page is about my husband's McClure ancestors, who sailed from Northern Ireland to Philadelphia and walked to Virginia to buy farmland--they spread out and kept moving west)
  • Steiner & Rinehart - 5,294 views (posts about my husband's maternal ancestors, descended from Jacob Steiner and from Joseph Rinehart, another Ohio branch)
  • Wood family, Ohio - 5,234 views (about my husband's ancestors in Toledo and, much earlier, part of the "Little Compton" Wood branch in Rhode Island)
  • Schwartz Family, Ungvar - 4,427 views (about my maternal grandfather's family based in what is now Uzhhorod, Ukraine)
  • Isaac & Henrietta Birk's story - 4,244 views (about my paternal grandparents, Isaac from Lithuania and Henrietta from Latvia; my quest to learn about Isaac is what started me in genealogy in 1998)
  • Robert & Mary Larimer's story -  4,163 views (about hubby's ancestors from the north of Ireland, including a tale of shipwreck and more)
  • William Tyler Bentley story - 3,931 views (hubby's ancestor who lived in Oswego county, New York, and my attempt to trace his line and his wife, Olivia Morgan Bentley, who dropped from Mars into the family tree)
  • Farkas & Kunstler, Hungary - 3,680 views (my maternal grandparents and great-grandparents from Hungary, including my great-grandpa whose financial ruin prompted him to come to New York City in 1899)
  • Meyer & Tillie Mahler - 3,526 views (my paternal great-grandparents and their dear friends/sometimes in-laws--Tillie was the longest-lived ancestor I know about, passing away around 100 years old)
  • Mary A. Demarest's story - 3,435 views (my husband's elusive ancestor who somehow got from New York City to Louisiana when she was 14, marrying a whaling man/carpenter and ultimately settling in Toledo, Ohio)
  • Abraham & Annie Birk - 3,398 views (my paternal grandfather's older brother and his wife, who met and married when the Birk brothers were staying with relatives in Manchester, England, in the very early 1900s)
  • John & Mary Slatter's Story - 3,045 views (lots of stories, some sad and some positive, including the three military bandmaster brothers who made their names in Canada)
  • Rachel & Jonah Jacobs - 2,755 views (my paternal great-great grandparents, I know nothing about Jonah but widowed Rachel came with her children to New York City in the 1880s and she would have known my grandma Henrietta Mahler Burk)
  • McKibbin, Larimer, Work - 2,308 views (hubby's intermarried ancestors who, fortunately, were researched by descendants over the years and now there are digitized family histories in the Family History Library)

Other bloggers have different ways of summarizing ancestor knowledge on their blogs. Randy Seavers has a page of bio links arranged by relationship, as one example. No matter the format, family history information like this can attract folks who are searching online for your ancestors' surnames--and help them connect with you. Cousin bait!

Friday, July 17, 2026

Review: "Acadian Genealogical Research" by Judy Nimer Muhn

I've long been a fan of Genealogical.com's "At a Glance" four-page, laminated guides to genealogy research in specific places or about specific cultures. Written by experts, they're concise, affordable, and quite convenient for reference, including detailed resources to consult.

The publisher recently sent me a free review copy of Judy Nimer Muhn's informative Acadian Genealogical Research, newly published in laminated/print and in e-book format. The e-book is reasonably priced at $7.95 and the laminated four-page booklet is $12.50. One advantage of the e-book is being able to click through to access more than 20 online resources discussed by the author, by the way.

If I had Acadian ancestors, this handy guide would be a great overview (see contents in image above). Judy specializes in Acadian ancestry, and she starts with key points of historical background (including settlements, war, peace, and forced deportations).

She then describes exactly where to search for documentation covering specific time frames and areas, as well as detailing a number of repositories that hold relevant genealogical records. Finally, she discusses cultural organizations and mentions other online resources (including podcasts) to consult when researching Acadian ancestors. 

If I could add anything, it would be a quick map outlining the settlements and migration patterns, which would be especially helpful to those beginning their journeys into Acadian research.

In short, Judy's "At a Glance" guide is brief yet authoritative, a useful addition to your reference library if you're focusing on Acadian ancestry. 

Note: Although I receive free review copies of Genealogical.com's publications from time to time, my honest opinions are entirely, completely, truly my own.

Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Even Informed Informants Can Make Mistakes

Paul Chiddicks recently wrote an insightful post about separating truth from error on official documents like birth, marriage, and death certificates. Sometimes ancestors didn't know, sometimes they didn't want to tell, sometimes they flat-out made mistakes or omissions when providing information to authorities.

Case in point: My 3c1r Milton Weiss (1920-1995) enlisted in the US Army on January 29, 1942, to serve in World War II. (He was honorably discharged in December of 1945.)

On February 15, 1942, he and his bride-to-be, Charlotte Schnee (1926-2000), filled out a marriage license application in Manhattan, New York.

At top, you can see that bride and groom each printed the information on the application. I always look at an original document if available, rather than any transcription or index. Happily, New York City makes these originals available! I found this on MyHeritage.

Charlotte herself wrote that her father's name was Morris A. Schne. 

Whether the bride was nervous or in a hurry, I can't tell--but she certainly knew her father's surname because it was exactly like her own, as I know from looking at other official family documents.

Interestingly, when the New York City clerk typed up the info for the marriage license, based on the hand-written application, the clerk ignored Charlotte's mistake and simply typed her father's name as "Morris" with the assumption that the father and daughter shared the same surname. Correct, though not an accurate transcription of the application hand-printed by the bride.

Charlotte and Milton were married for more than 50 years and had two daughters together. Finding this handwritten application reminded me that even an informed informant like Charlotte can make a mistake. 

Friday, July 10, 2026

Wilson Caldwell, Minute Man in US Civil War

On this day in 1863, my husband's 1c3r answered the call to enlist in the Indiana "minute men" Infantry and prepare to defend against attack from Confederate forces during the US Civil War.

Wilson Caldwell (1845-1921) was just 18 and living in Posey township, Fayette County, Indiana with his farming family when he enlisted on July 10, 1863 in the 104th Indiana Infantry, Company K. On this map, Posey is at top left of the county.

Wilson and his fellow minute men served just eight days because they were enlisted specifically for short-term emergency service, not for regular military service. 

From Union Army, vol. 3, p. 174, a description of his unit's history in the context of other units formed at the same time: 

One Hundred and Fourth Infantry Indiana Minute Men. -Word being received at Indianapolis on the evening of July 8, 1863, that a force of 6,000 cavalry under [Confederate General] Morgan had crossed the Ohio River near Mauckport and was moving on Corydon, a call was issued for citizens to organize for defense. Within 48 hours 65,000 men had tendered their services. From this number regiments 102 to 114 inclusive, and one battalion were organized, the battalion being assigned to the 107th. One Hundred and Fourth Infantry. -Col., James Gavin, Lieut.Col. Jacob S. Buchanan Maj., Martin W. Richardson. This regiment consisted of six companies of minute men and four of the Legion: Six companies were from Decatur County and one each from Fayette, Madison, Marion and Rush Counties. The regiment was organized at Greensburg, July 10, 1863, with 719 rank and file, and moved to Sunman's station, thence to Lawrenceburg, and from there toward Harrison, Ohio. It returned to Greensburg after Morgan's escape and was mustered out July 18, 1863.

Wilson and his fellow minute men helped chase the Confederates but once the local threat was diminished, they were mustered out and returned home. Note: (Confederate General Morgan was captured in Ohio just eight days after the 104th was mustered out.)

Wilson married Annie B. Cassell and after a short period of farming in Posey, he became an agent and salesman, moving the family to the more populous Wayne County, Indiana. He and Annie had three children together.

Sadly, Annie passed away in 1906 but Wilson kept working to support himself and his youngest child. He wrapped up his working life as the manager of an Indianapolis billiards hall, according to the US Census of1920. 

Wilson Caldwell died on July 18, 1921, exactly 58 years after being mustered out of his Civil War unit. 

Monday, July 6, 2026

Ancestry "Tree Compare" in Beta

Here's a new Ancestry feature I'm exploring: Tree Compare, now in beta. I discovered it while looking at some ancestor-in-laws such as Alice Hopperton, who was the second wife of my husband's grandfather.

Of course I don't rely on any online tree as a quote fact unquote. But trees often have great clues such as family photos and record sources that I can examine and evaluate to determine relevancy and then follow up if I wish.

As shown, Alice is "found in 10+ Ancestry trees" and with one click, I was able to begin comparing Alice on those trees with Alice on my tree.

Using Tree Compare, my tree is on the right and another tree for comparison is on the left. (I obscured info for privacy.) When info is similar or identical on the other tree, Ancestry adds a "similar" label, as you can see on the tree at left. The comparison also shows the name and the owner of the other tree. That's helpful because I've already seen many of these trees and sometimes I recognize the tree name or the owner's name. I can also "pick a different tree" at the top right of the comparison screen.

When I clicked to pick a different tree, a longer list of trees (all with Alice) showed up. I could look at the overviews (including name of tree, number of records, number of people, and owner) and select another to compare.

This is a convenient way to look at trees "at a glance" and pick one (or more) to closely compare with my tree and that ancestor. Remember, clues only!

CAUTION: If a different tree has someone labeled as "new," then this beta Ancestry feature will suggest where to place the person in your tree. Beware.

Direct above, I was using Tree Compare to see James E. Wood on other people's trees. Ancestry's comparison examined related people. The suggested placement for Edith E. Baker (from someone else's tree, on left) is entirely wrong. Edith clearly does not belong to the parents where Ancestry wants to put her. I already have her on my tree as a daughter of, yes, James Sills Baker and Adelaide M Slatter. 

I discovered similar mistakes in Tree Compare's suggestions of other ancestors on same tree and in another tree. Tree Compare can't take the place of doing research to understand potential tree connections. Confirm before you click! 

Saturday, July 4, 2026

Happy July 4th and America 250

Celebrating Independence Day and America 250 with this penny postal greeting sent to my husband's family in Cleveland, Ohio, 119 years ago today. What a colorful Uncle Sam!

Friday, July 3, 2026

Celebrating Fourth of July in Family History


Three special events took place on the Fourth of July in my and my husband's combined family tree:
  • Samuel Schwartz (1883-1954), my maternal great uncle, was born on July 4th in what was Ungvar, Hungary (now Uzhhorod, Ukraine). He came to America in 1904, became a naturalized US citizen in 1909, and got married in Bridgeport, Connecticut, less than a week later. I've been in touch with his grandchildren, my 2d cousins.
  • Thomas Jefferson Isaiah Haskell Wood (1848-1861), in my husband's Wood family tree, was born on July 4th in Plaquemine, Louisiana, the second of 17 children. Sadly, this young man drowned at the age of 12. 
  • George Ainsworth Larimer (1873-1922), my husband's 1c2r, served in the 157th Indiana Infantry during the Spanish-American War, 1898. On July 4, 1899, George boarded a Chicago-bound train near his home in Indiana. "Coincidentally" on the same train was Cora May Lutz, also from Indiana. The two left the train at St. Joseph, Michigan (a Gretna Green), were married by a justice of the peace, then returned home later that day. I blogged about the news coverage of this elopement here.
Thinking of these three ancestors on July 4th weekend.

Thursday, July 2, 2026

OTD: Marital Expatriates Can More Easily Regain US Citizenship


In my father's family tree, when Vilna-born merchant Samuel Markell (1885-1971) married Boston-born Marion Goldstein (1885-1961) in Revere, Massachusetts in 1911, the new bride took her husband's surname--and also his nationality. He was "Russian" and she became "Russian" at the moment of their wedding.

This was due to the US law known as the Expatriation Act of 1907, which tied a woman's citizenship to that of her husband. By marrying an alien, Marion Goldstein Markell was transformed into a marital expatriate for three decades. Samuel became a US citizen in 1923 but that didn't change his wife's status.

Changes under the Cable Act 

After World War I, and an outcry from US women who gained the right to vote starting in 1920, Congress passed the Cable Act of 1922 to restore citizenship eligibility to women who were marital expatriates. However, the women had to actually apply for naturalization as though they had not been American-born. Many did not. By 1936, US law streamlined the process of allowing marital expatriates to become US citizens. 

Changes on July 2, 1940

Finally, on this day in 1940, a new law amended the 1936 rules. Now women who were marital expatriates could more easily "repatriate" and regain their citizenship, no matter their marital status. They still had to take an oath of allegiance.

And that's why, in June of 1941, Marion Goldstein Markell filed the paperwork to regain her US citizenship. In September of that year, she took the oath of allegiance. Thirty years after losing her US citizenship, she was again legally an American citizen. 

Wednesday, July 1, 2026

Color to Add Pizzazz to Bite-Sized Family History Book

Putting together this most recent bite-sized family history project, Sis and I had an abundance of photos and ideas. The trick was to streamline the project by selecting some of the photos, not all of the photos--and some of the info, not all of it. That's why we focused only on the first decade of family life. Even so, we had to make decisions about what to put in and what to leave out. And we needed a touch of color to catch the eye of our readers.

PRO TIP: If you are doing a project like this, and want to have multiple books printed, please please order ONE to start. Sis and I found 2 typos and some slightly misaligned photos in the first book we ordered, plus we sharpened our captions on a few pages. THEN we reordered to receive more books (on sale of course).

How to choose?

Because the younger generation responds strongly to visuals, Sis and I looked at the content of the photos, the quality, and how these fit with the stories we wanted to highlight: our parents' wedding, our birth, play time, hobbies, family visits, vacations, and education.

Most of our bonanza of photos didn't appear in the photo book, which turned out to be 22 pages long. The vast majority of photos were small and black/white. Often the captions were on facing pages.

It's a 10 inch by 10 inch book, to be sure faces in the snapshots are visible and identifiable. As shown at top, each page had up to 4 photos, positioned quirkily to avoid looking too blocky and regimented. This is not a corporate project, it's a family history project.

We chose Shutterfly but have also used MixBook and Snapfish for family history projects. 

Who's who again?

For this first book, it was wonderful to find and include a photo (left) of Grandma Minnie with four of her grandchildren. Rarely did we four children (us and our 1st cousins) get together in Grandma's Bronx apartment. Sis and I even remembered the dolls we're holding! The identification wasn't over the photo in the final book, only here for privacy reasons.

Sis and I were identified by the initials M and I in the bottom margin of the photo. Too often there was no identification on a photo of us. This photo was a highlight that we're excited to share with the younger generation. I left in the marginal notes of photos we chose, including the dates if printed on the edge of the photo.

Tweaking photos but no significant changes

I cleaned up each image after digitizing so the chosen photos would be as clear as possible. As a MyHeritage subscriber, I used its color restoration tools to bring old color photos back to life in a way that looks natural and vibrant. I didn't want to go that far beyond the original for b/w images, but restoring the color of faded color prints made sense to me.

I used AI to sharpen and straighten a few photos, but not to change anything. Whatever was in the photo remained--including inconvenient objects, stray tree limbs, etc. Still, I had to crop a bit to fit so many photos into the book.

That touch of color

As shown at top, each page has a touch of color, such as a color word or a simple graphic like a yellow sun. The background color of the pages shows a hint of texture. Color borders surround each photo, to brighten the look without overwhelming the content. (I obscured some parts of this page before posting here, for privacy reasons.)

This fun bite-sized project will preserve and perpetuate lots of memories and photos from the past!

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

Great-Grandpa Was Naturalized 120 Years Ago

In June of 1906, my maternal great-grandfather became a naturalized American citizen in US District Court, Brooklyn, New York.

Moritz Farkas (1857-1936) was born on July 3d in the small country village of Botpalad, Hungary. He arrived at Ellis Island in August of 1899, aged 42, having been financially ruined when a hail storm wiped out his uninsured crops. Moritz became a tailor (and cloak maker) in New York City. 

His wife Lena Kunstler Farkas (1865-1938) came through Ellis Island a year later, followed by their eight oldest children (four at a time, in 1901 and 1903). Counting the 3 children born in New York, Moritz and Lena had a total of 11 children.

My great-grandpa Moritz was eager to become a US citizen and he achieved this important goal only days before his 49th birthday. On the reverse side of his naturalization index card, officials noted that he had formerly been a subject of the Emperor of Austria and the King of Hungary. 

Now, thanks to a hail storm, and Moritz's urgent need to start over in New York City, I can celebrate America 250 and remember this immigrant great-grandpa with affection and gratitude.

Sunday, June 21, 2026

A Fresh Old Snapshot of Dad for Father's Day 2026

For Father's Day, I'm remembering Dad (Harold D. Burk, 1909-1978). Sis and I rediscovered this snapshot while assembling content for a photo book of our family's first decade.

Dad has a big smile on his face while sitting at the Pulitzer Fountain, near the famous Plaza Hotel -- and opposite where the luxe Savoy Plaza Hotel once stood. 

Dad owned a travel agency located in the lobby of the Savoy Plaza Hotel. He and his brother (Sidney Burk, 1915-1995) arranged train and plane tickets for the hotel's well-heeled guests. 

The Savoy Plaza was the home of Trader Vic's, a trendy, upscale tiki restaurant that served inauthentic but fun "Polynesian" food. When we kids would visit Dad at his hotel, sometimes we would be treated to a meal at Trader Vic's. 

Alas, the Savoy Plaza was sold and resold not long after this photo was taken. It was then torn down to make way for the General Motors building. Dad's business never recovered and he was forced to retire before he was ready. 

As for Trader Vic's, the restaurant moved across to the Plaza and shone brightly for nearly 30 more years before closing its doors. 

Thinking of Dad with great affection on this Father's Day.

Friday, June 19, 2026

Heirloom Documented on WikiTree Free-Space Profile

Last year, Sis and I put together a custom shadowbox frame featuring a photo of Mom (Daisy Schwartz Burk, 1919-1981) and her twin sister (Dorothy Schwartz, 1919-2001) and a few pieces of their childhood jewelry.

The shadowbox includes an archival envelope on the back, where I've stored paperwork explaining about the twins and their jewelry. Ready to be passed down to future generations!

I just created a FREE WikiTree Free-Space page picturing and describing this heirloom. I included the photo of the twins that is in the center of the shadowbox. The space has plenty of room for photos, other images, and lots of text content. Free Space pages can refer to ancestor profiles on WikiTree, which I've done. I also added the twin jewelry page as a source link on Mom and Auntie Dorothy's Wiki profiles.

Above, a screen capture of part of my page. You can see the entire page here.

I'm so happy to have this heirloom documented beyond my genealogy blog, on a free site where I can share with other relatives.

To learn more about WikiTree Free-Space pages, see the help page here.

Tuesday, June 16, 2026

Whatever Happened to Henry Canner Harvey?

Researching my husband's family tree, I'd long been looking for the death of Henry Canner Harvey (b. 1875). Henry married my hubby's 1c1r Maud Victoria Slatter (1887-1963) in 1911 in Ontario, Canada. They had two children together, one born in Canada and one born in New York State.

Maud born in Cairo, Henry born in England

Maud interested me because she is the only ancestor in my husband's family to be born in Cairo, Egypt (when her father Albert William Slatter was posted there during his service in the Shropshire Light Infantry). 

Henry had been born in Wisbech, Cambridgeshire, England and made his way to Buffalo, New York before 1911. He married Maud in that year, obtaining a marriage license in Fort Erie, in Canada just across from Buffalo, but marrying in London, Ontario, where her family lived. They settled in Buffalo, New York.

In 1916, Henry and several partners took over a Buffalo automobile body manufacturing business that he had managed, incorporating it as Harvey Top and Body Company. He ran that business for at least a decade, during a boom period for automobiles (and a period of population growth for Buffalo). 

Where's Henry?

By the late 1920s, Henry had disappeared from the records and the news. His wife Maud was mentioned in one child's marriage notice, but no Henry. I didn't want to assume divorce, especially since Henry was noted as her late husband in Maud's obit of 1963. But where was he? There were all kinds of possibilities.

After failing to find any grave or death cert, I focused on newspaper research, especially searching for obits or business items, thinking that surely a man (with the distinctive name of Henry Canner Harvey) who ran a successful auto body and building business would be remembered at his death. I searched multiple newspaper databases plus freebie databases and all over the place. No obit and no death record that I could find, in Buffalo or anywhere. No news coverage of him after the late 1920s. Periodically, I repeated my searches. Nope.

Breakthrough: Full-Text Search

This month, after again fruitlessly searching all newspaper databases for an obit or news snippet, I turned to FamilySearch's full-text search. I searched "Henry Canner Harvey" and the top result was a detailed death cert from, of all places, Los Angeles, California. See image at top. Breakthrough!

This is most definitely the correct Henry, given that the informant is his wife Maud V. Harvey. He had cancer for a couple of years before he died after an operation for a bowel obstruction, sad to say. I was surprised that he was a commercial traveler (salesman) for building material for the past 6 years. Maybe his auto body business suffered after the big stock market crash of 1929 and the start of the Depression? Again, many possibilities, but clearly he was no longer associated with autos and now associated with building, a solid industry in California.

Curiously, the birth year on Henry's cert is incorrect. Also, he and his wife had different residential addresses, according to this cert. And for some reason the names of his parents are "unknown." Even his birth place is "unknown." I again checked every newspaper database and found no obit, no mention, in California or New York, or anywhere.

Still, I now know what happened to Henry Canner Harvey and will plan to add him as "cremated" to Find a Grave, with a bite-sized bio of his entrepreneurial spirit.

"Possibilities" is this week's #52Ancestors genealogy prompt from Amy Johnson Crow.

Saturday, June 13, 2026

Content for Bite-Sized Family History Projects

 

As Sis and I continue our bite-sized project about the first decade of our family life, we're putting "meat on the bones." Thanks for riding along with us as we work on this project.

What will help us tell the story of our first 10 years? 

  • Photos! Lots of photos! But not every photo (more in a later blog post). I also included a snippet of a map to show where my fam vacationed when Sis and I were 3 years old. Younger relatives love to look at the pictures, so put in plenty.
  • Names. We identified people in the photos by name and by relationship, saying that the boy who bounced the babies on his lap was our first cousin. Even folks who weren't in photos were name-checked, such as the paternal aunt who  bought us fancy dresses for birthdays and photo opps. 
  • Birth announcements. Yes, we still have them and they are in the book, listing times, weights, etc. Plus I looked up the weather on the day Sis and I were born and mentioned that as well.
  • Education. Oh those school days! We included class photos, a photo of our elementary school, memories. Sis and I walked nearly half a mile each way to school, and sometimes walked home for lunch (and back). In all we walked almost two miles per day and still had energy for playtime!
  • Leisure time activities including music lessons, dancing lessons, day camp. We included vivid memories from two vacations, including one at a working farm where we kids petted the barn kitties and milked the cows. For city girls, this was a big deal.
  • Copyright-free photos of a few places from our childhood (such as Radio City Music Hall in Manhattan, where we saw new movies and the Rockettes).
  • Stories from our own memories and from what relatives said. Our grandmother's family tree association kept written minutes and the family was told that Sis said "thank you" and I said "pretty" as our first words. This enriches the project, IMHO :) 
  • Black and white is boring. Younger folks expect color so I added color borders to b/w photos and a few little color illustrations like the outline of blue wedding bells on a b/w invitation and a yellow sun drawing above a b/w photo of camp days. It's all about catching the eye of readers long enough to tell the stories.
Each bite-sized project is unique and reflects the subjects as well as the maker(s). Sis and I are enjoying the process of documenting our family's first decade. What works for us might not work for you, but I wanted to share our experience to provide some ideas.

I ended this project with a "cliff-hanger" sentence about the dramatic changes about to happen to our family, as our father experienced health and work problems during the second decade of family life. Sis asked, why the cliff-hanger? I want readers to be eager to read our next photo book! To be continued ... 

Wednesday, June 10, 2026

OTD: Brice and Floyda Married, 1903

On June 10, 1903, my husband's grandparents were married in a small family ceremony at a relative's home in Upper Sandusky, Ohio. Brice Larimer McClure (1878-1970) was a master mechanic working on major railroads, and Floyda Mabel Steiner (1878-1948) was a plucky 25-year-old who had divorced her abusive first husband two years earlier.

Looking at Brice, I thought again about a conflict surrounding his date of birth. He himself gave two different dates for his birth. On his World War I draft registration, he told the draft board he was born on December 29, 1878. But for his World War II draft registration, he told the draft board he was born on December 25, 1878. Also, the Social Security death index shows his birth as December 29, 1878.

So I looked at the only original document available for his birth: A ledger from Little Traverse, Michigan, where his birth was recorded in late June of 1879. As shown above in the entry with the star, the date is clearly noted as Dec 25, 1878.

Since that documentation was closest in time to Brice's birth, I'm sticking with it and showing the birth date as Christmas Day, 1878. 

Also, using FamilySearch's full text search, I discovered that Brice L. McClure was the witness on several US naturalizations as well as at least one last will and testament. I already knew that Brice and Floyda were the joint executors of the will of Floyda's sister, Minne E. Steiner Halbedel. And when Floyda died in 1948, her devoted husband Brice, married for 45 years, was executor of her estate. 

Happy 123d anniversary to my husband's maternal grandparents, a couple who were close, happy, and devoted to their only daughter, my hubby's much-loved mother.

Monday, June 8, 2026

"Kindness is Never Misplaced"








I admit (and not for the first time) that I married my husband for his ancestors. 😂 Such interesting stories!

I've been looking at his Steiner family (relatives of his grandmother Floyda Steiner McClure). His grand-aunt Addie married Charles S. Deering and they had one child, Marie Pauline Deering (1889-1918). After Pauline's death in March of 1918, at the age of 28, more came out about about her final illness and the contents of her will. Pauline was the last in her line, although she did have first cousins and second cousins.

Inez the nurse 

Here's an item from the Mansfield News Journal of Mansfield, Ohio, published on April 12, 1918 (and also appearing in other Ohio newspapers):

"Inez F. Verby realizes that kindness is never misplaced. A short time ago, Miss Pauline Deering was taken ill and when it was realized that she could not live, Miss Verby, her nurse, took her home and kept her until death came. Miss Deering's will has been admitted to probate and under its terms Miss Verby is to receive $12,000 as payment for her kindness to her patient. Miss Deering, who lived in Oberlin, left an estate valued at $30,000."

Inez Verby nursed my husband's cousin in her final illness, which was "tuberculosis of the spine" - also known as Pott's disease. Inez worked as a nurse for years, hired by private patients and by physicians. (I found payment receipts and estate documents reflecting her nursing duties for decades.) 

Inez the executrix

Pauline's will did indeed leave Inez $12,000 in payment for her services. It also named Inez as executrix, with a long list of duties such as making sure that the beneficiaries received their bequests. And what bequests! Money to Inez but also valuable and sentimental household items, as shown above, ranging from Pauline's father's US Civil War military artifacts going to a Deering relative to a hand-stitched sampler being bequeathed to a cousin.

I was taken aback by the listing of property shown in the will (see excerpt at top of this post). In addition to a house and lot in Plankinton, South Dakota, where Pauline was born, she also owned two apartment houses in Chicago. Maybe her father or mother arranged for these as an investment? In any event, all the property was to be liquidated by the executrix to provide cash for bills and bequests.

Inez was also directed to work with a family friend to arrange for a monument after Pauline was buried in Nevada Cemetery, Nevada, Ohio. I've requested a photo of Pauline's monument through Find a Grave. May she rest in peace. 

Wednesday, June 3, 2026

Marrying in Plankinton Before Dakota Became Two States













Researching my husband's Steiner ancestors, this social item on page 1 of the Crawford County News (Bucyrus, Ohio), August 28, 1884, caught my eye: 

Addie Steiner, formerly of Nevada [Ohio], was recently married at Plankinton, Dakota to C.S. Deering.

Adda "Addie" Forrest Steiner (1860-1915) was my husband's 1c2r. She grew up with her parents and siblings in small-town Nevada, Ohio, according to the US Census of 1870 and 1880.

Why Go from Ohio to Dakota?

Somehow, in 1884, Addie managed to travel to Plankinton, Dakota Territory and marry Charles Sawyer Deering (1839-1899), a widower who had served in the 13th Maine Infantry on the Union side of the US Civil War two decades earlier. He was born in Maine and farmed in Maine before embarking on a different work life.

From Addie's Ohio hometown to her new home in Plankinton is a distance of 950 miles. How she got to Dakota is a mystery. Remember that Dakota Territory wasn't split into the two states of North Dakota and South Dakota until very late in 1889. Plankinton is in the south of South Dakota, as shown on the map above. 

My guess is that Addie met Charles on one of his trips to or from Dakota and his family's home in Maine. Addie lived close to several busy railroad hubs. From my knowledge of Addie's family, they had no relatives in Maine and didn't travel there themselves. (If they had visited Maine, local newspapers would probably have mentioned their comings and goings in the social items that filled many columns.)

Charles Deering in Dakota

Charles's marriage to Addie in August of 1884 came a decade after the death of his first wife, Abbie Flood, in their home town in Maine. Abbie sadly died shortly after giving birth to a baby boy, and their son lived just a few weeks longer, sorry to say. 

Maybe these terrible losses prompted Charles to seek a fresh start in rapidly-growing Dakota. In 1879, a few years after his first wife's death, Charles went to Plankinton to work on a telegraph line for the United States Signal Service. He returned to Maine following that telegraph work, then went out west again to continue the telegraph line in 1880 (Portland Press Herald, Maine, April 17, 1880). 

Charles settled down in Plankinton, later running a furniture store and heading up a farm insurance firm. As a Union veteran, he was especially active in the Grand Army of the Republic, serving as an officer in local and regional groups. 

Charles and Addie had one child: Marie Pauline Deering, born in Plankinton in October of 1889, only a month before Dakota Territory became two states. 

What happened to Charles and Addie

Charles died in March of 1899 due to stomach cancer, at age 60. His brief obit appeared in many newspapers throughout the Dakotas, and even in a Minneapolis paper that covered the South Dakota region. His GAR activities were prominently mentioned in the obit. 

Addie was now widowed in Plankinton with young Pauline, only 9 years old. By 1900, the two had moved to Sioux Falls, South Dakota, where they were boarders in the home of an insurance executive while Pauline attended school.

By 1910, mother and daughter had moved to Lima, Ohio, to continue Pauline's education. They boarded with the family of Edward V. Wells. Addie fell ill in 1915 and went to Cleveland for surgery, which didn't go well. She passed away and was buried in Nevada Cemetery in Ohio, near other Steiner relatives. Pauline was left an orphan, not yet finished with her college degree at Oberlin. 

More about Pauline in my next post!

Plankinton is a "place that matters" in my husband's family tree. "Place that matters" is this week's 52 Ancestors prompt from Amy Johnson Crow.

More Book Reviews for America 250 and Independence Day

Leading up to this year's special America 250 celebrations and Independence Day, I recently read two books that I highly recommend. 

The Greatest Sentence Ever Written

The first is a fairly quick read: The Greatest Sentence Ever Written by famed biographer Walter Isaacson. This 80-page book dissects and provides context for this powerful sentence that stands out from the Declaration of Independence:

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.

This one sentence was carefully drafted, revised, rewritten, and discussed by a number of major figures of the American Revolution. I was intrigued by the nuances and implications presented by Isaacson as he analyzes each word. 

This Land Is Your Land


Professor Beverly Gage of Yale University wrote the second book I enjoyed: This Land Is Your Land. This is a first-person account of Gage's visits north, south, east, and west to historic places across the United States that shaped the country over time. This narrative picks up where Isaacson's book leaves off, with a look at the American Revolution through Gage's modern-day visit to Independence Hall. 

We ride along with the author through places as varied as Henry Ford's River Rouge automobile plant in Michigan, the Alamo in Texas, and Crazy Horse monument in South Dakota. She doesn't shy away from topics such as enslaved people, native peoples, foreign wars, and the challenges of industrialization. I particularly appreciated Gage's personal observations as well as her careful historical explanations. Recommended! 

Tuesday, June 2, 2026

First Half 2026: Genealogy Look-Back and Look Ahead

 
So far in 2026, my family history research and projects have been moving along nicely! Top priority has been sharing what I know with family and online. Progress to date:

  • From my maternal side, I've digitally shared the 30 years of scanned Farkas Family Tree minutes (600+ pages) and 42 minutes of Farkas home videos with at least one cousin in every line descending from our journey-taking immigrant ancestors, Moritz Farkas and Lena Kunstler Farkas. This project began in 2014 when I scanned the tree association's written minutes and printed spiral-bound copies. Now my cousins have the minutes in digital,  searchable form. Happily, this has prompted more questions about our genealogical background.
  • Sis and I printed the first of a series of photo books about our parents (Harold Burk and Daisy Schwartz Burk) and ourselves. This initial chapter focuses on our family's first decade. We are going to plan our next photo book during the summer, after getting feedback from the younger generation.
  • I've added more ancestors and information to my family trees on Ancestry, MyHeritage, and WikiTree, as well as linking ancestors and posting bite-sized bios on Find a Grave. I also participated in two WikiTree Connect-a-Thons, putting dozens of ancestors on that free worldwide collaborative tree. In the process, I solved a handful of small family history mysteries.
  • I completed the trans-Atlantic donation of family artifacts to an important repository! The Imperial War Museum now has possession of letters written from a family in England to my maternal grandparents (Hermina Farkas Schwartz and Theodore Schwartz) and to my Mom (Daisy Schwartz), in the Bronx, New York, during World War II. 
  • My hubby and I had his peacetime US Army memorabilia framed in a custom shadowbox and wrote notes to explain the significance and timing of each item in the frame. This was at the request of the family, a future heirloom.
Looking ahead, my plans for July through December are:

  • We will record (audio or video) my husband's peacetime military memories and submit to the US Library of Congress for its Veteran's Oral History Project. My senior community has a small recording studio where we will conduct a 30-45 minute interview together. The studio volunteers have kindly agreed to put this into the required format. Just think, my husband will be in the Library of Congress!
  • Continue curating my genealogy materials with an eye toward physically or digitally donating to appropriate institutions. This downsizes my collection or at least shares selected items beyond the family. I want info about my ancestors or artifacts from their past to be in different museums, libraries, archives, and other repositories. 
  • Maybe, just maybe, I'll finally move those old family photos into archival albums. I have everything on hand, and the photos are sitting safely in archival envelopes inside archival boxes. I just have to make the time to concentrate on this project, including captioning.
  • LOCKSS. After 28 years of genealogy fun, it's most important to me to perpetuate my family's past by sharing it appropriately and widely. Remember, lots of copies keep stuff safe. Family history is less likely to be forgotten if it's available in many places and in many hands.

Sunday, May 31, 2026

Bite-Sized Family History Preservation

Early this year, Sis and I promised our family that we would create a photo book showing Mom (Daisy) and Dad (Harry) and our family. We wanted to include photos and stories stretching from birth of the children to school days to adulthood.






It didn't take long to realize how sprawling this would be if we tried to cover all major milestones from birth to today in a single project. 

Instead, we decided to go bite-sized so this project doesn't become overwhelming or unwieldy. 

To start, Sis and I are focusing on the first decade of our family life, not our entire family's history. We're collecting and digitizing our childhood photos and documents, little by little. It's been fun to reminisce as we plan and scan. Scanning sets the stage for cropping, repairing, and/or sharpening each photo. We want these photos to look their best for posterity. 

We recognize there are family stories that only we can tell because we were there and we still remember. We have to share these stories NOW to keep them alive for the next generation.

After we complete the first decade's photo book, we'll sit back and appreciate how good the book looks. 😀 Then we can begin planning for the second decade's photo book. Breaking this big project into smaller bites makes it doable and keeps us interested and motivated.

Try a bite-sized project by putting the focus on one ancestor (or a couple, spouses or siblings), a special occasion (wedding, birthday, reunion, etc.), a specific time period (a special year in the life of an ancestor, for instance), a particular heirloom, a special place in family history, or a photo from family history.

Monday, May 25, 2026

Researching US Military Ancestors Serving in Europe and Beyond


After donating wartime correspondence between a British family and my Bronx family, I looked even more carefully at what the Imperial War Museum (IWM) suggests for researching US military members' family history. It has an entire section with ideas and links for tracing US military personnel.

The American Archive of the IWM also has detailed research guides for how to locate info about specific military aircraft, places associated with US forces in Britain, units of the US Army Air Force, and combat missions. I'm currently using these resources to research a serviceman who wrote my aunt, the WAC, during the time they were both stationed in England. 

On this Memorial Day, I hope you have found clues and documentation related to your ancestors' service. With respect and gratitude, I salute the men and women in my family and in all families who served their country during war and during peace.

Note that some memorials have been transcribed and posted on various sites. Here for instance is a link to memorials listing service men and service women laid to rest in Australia

More military ancestor research ideas were listed in my previous post here.

Friday, May 22, 2026

Researching US Military Ancestors

Although Memorial Day is traditionally a time to remember those who died in service of their country, I also think about the men and women in my family tree who were in any of the armed forces at any time.

This month I've been doing a bit more research into some US military ancestors so I can better document their service.

For this kind of research, I check the usual suspects and a little beyond:

In addition, I want to chronicle my husband's peacetime military service for the sake of future generations. We already have his military memorabilia saved in a shadowbox frame, with the stories in an envelope on the back, a handsome future heirloom.

The next step is to have him tell the story in his own words--and have it saved in the Library of Congress! He is considering submitting oral history as part of this Library of Congress Veterans History Project. 

Remember: LOCKSS (lots of copies keep stuff safe). Stories of our military relatives and ancestors deserve to be preserved!

* My Veterans Affairs request for my Dad's medical records remains stalled, although my US Rep is attempting to nudge it through the appeal process, where it has languished since Sept 2025. More as soon as I know whether this will work!

Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Today's Photos of 20th Century Big Apple Homes and Buildings












I like to see where my ancestors lived in New York City back in the day, and what their homes and neighborhoods look like today.

I've used the New York City tax photos from 1939-1941 to see older views of these buildings. Often I use Google to see the map locations and today's "street views" but now I have a different tool I can use.

Above, a search I conducted on NYCityMap (click here to get started yourself) for my great-grandma Tillie Jacobs Mahler's address in the 1950 US Census. She was in her 90s and living in an apartment with her grown daughter Dora Mahler, who had a chronic heart condition. (Dora was incorrectly listed as "Dorothy" in the 1950 Census.)

At top right you can see I typed in the street address "1933 Marmion Avenue, Bronx." Up popped the correct address and zip code. When I clicked on the address, the map appeared, highlighting this apartment building in a gold rectangle.

Also the column at right of map gave me details such as how many floors (5) and how many residential units (16). The construction year was noted (1921) and an option for "street view" (see arrow on image at top). 


Clicking to view the building as it looks today, I saw the apartment building appears very much like it did when Great-Grandma and Great-Aunt Dora lived there. This was a walk-up, no elevator. How Tillie and Dora got up all those stairs, considering their health challenges, I can't imagine.

For comparison, here is the Google Street View version of 1933 Marmion Avenue in the Bronx. Photo taken same month as the other photo, by the way.

Of course, if your New York City ancestor's residence or business has already been torn down, this website won't be of any help. My Dad (Tillie's grandson, Dora's nephew) lived in an apartment at 77 East 109th street in Manhattan as a boy and that address no longer exists, which is why I can't view any building details or photos. He also lived in an apartment at 7 East 105th Street in Manhattan, which was redeveloped in 1921 as some kind of public facility building--no longer a residential building. 

Thinking of Dora and Tillie with affection as the anniversaries of their deaths approach. Dora died in June of 1950 at age 55, and Tillie died in June of 1952 at age ... 99 or 100 (maybe).

Saturday, May 16, 2026

Odds and Ends from Recent Genealogy Research


I've found some odd/interesting things as well as some notable "ends" in my recent family history research.

In the past few weeks, I've been surprised to learn these oddities and discoveries, sometimes from documents and sometimes from old newspapers:

  • Alabama was once the quickie divorce capital of America! Based in New York City, Violet Schwartz Winton, the sister-in-law of my 1c2r, was divorced in 1958 in Alabama, of all places. Why? Only a 24-hour residency was needed for a "quickie divorce" in Alabama. Lots of famous people divorced in Alabama (millionaires, movie and TV stars, etc.). Much faster than going to Reno, Nevada.
  • The 1880 US Census asks about a very broad range of illnesses and disabilities. Usually I see notations like blind or mute, but in the case of Elizabeth McCann Caldwell, wife of hubby's 1c3r, the enumerator wrote "paralyzed on right side." Elizabeth was pregnant then, and gave birth to her last child a few months later. This enumerator was very detail-oriented: she noted illnesses such as sick headache, tumor on neck, white swelling, dropsy, rheumatism, and "old age" [for anyone over 70 years old].
  • Hubby's 3c1r was involved with public radio. Josephine Helen Hanford and her future husband, Raymond J. Stanley, fell in love while working at public radio station WHA in Madison during the 1930s, after both graduated from nearby University of Wisconsin. When the couple married in 1941, station co-workers attended the wedding. In 1956, Helen received a Pioneer award for writing for the station's classroom radio broadcasts.
Also a few discoveries about endings:

  • Grim Reaper was the headline on the column listing deaths in 1915 in the Star Press of Muncie, Indiana. 
  • A number of Midwestern and Southeastern US ancestors in my tree and hubby's tree died of typhoid fever, unfortunately. Outbreaks were apparently not uncommon, often due to contaminated water. My hubby's 1c3r in Missouri died of typhoid in 1911. "Typhoid may claim family" read a headline about a neighboring family stricken with typhoid weeks after this cousin died.
  • "Falls Dead Sawing Wood" was the 1908 headline of a brief death notice for a farmer who died suddenly of heart disease and was found hours later still with a saw in his hand. Not a relative but a sad end.

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Sold in Teddy's Dairy Store: Butter, Eggs and -- Beer?!

On the anniversary of my paternal Grandpa Teddy's death in May, 1965, I've been redoing my newspaper research and learned something new, thanks to additional newspapers now in databases and fully searchable.

Background: Theodore "Teddy" Schwartz was born in Ungvar, Hungary on May 21, 1887. He came to New York City in March of 1901, married my Grandma Hermina "Minnie" Farkas in 1911. The portrait above shows him around the time of his marriage. Just as the US was entering World War I, Teddy started up a dairy store in the South Bronx, New York. With a small son and expecting more children in the future, this family-owned store would provide more stable income than his previous occupation as insurance and steamship agent.

Teddy's Dairy was a small, one-store operation, always in the Bronx, selling basics like butter, eggs, and pantry items. Also soda pop, candy, pickles, and assorted household supplies. He sold his store once or twice and opened in a new location each time, moving further north toward the more "suburban" areas of the Bronx.  

In 1933, as Prohibition was just about coming to a close, Grandpa Teddy received a retail license to sell beer and wine in his dairy store at 679 Fox Street in the South Bronx. How do I know? I found the public notice of his license published in the New York Evening Journal newspaper, page 19, on July 19, 1933. Prohibition wasn't quite over but apparently stores and restaurants could sell some alcoholic beverages with the proper permits.

Grandpa later sold that store and opened another at 640 East 180th Street in the Bronx, further uptown from the earlier store. In July of 1948, he was issued a permit to sell beer at retail, not to be consumed on the premises. This public notice was published in the New York Post Home News, considered the "hometown newspaper" of the Bronx. 

Since Teddy's Dairy was open all day, and six days a week, I think selling beer was a good way to bring in customers later in the day and into the evening. Sometimes Teddy didn't close the shop until well after dinner (I know from reading the family tree minutes) but those beer sales would have been profitable.

Thinking of Grandpa Teddy Schwartz with great affection. And grateful for the newspapers newly added to databases!

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Book Review: The First 24 Hours of the American Revolution

April, 1775 was a pivotal time for Patriots in the American Colonies, who were seeking more freedom from Great Britain. No spoiler alert needed: You know how this story ends.

Jack Darrell Crowder chronicles The First 24 Hours of the American Revolution in this 2018 book, 129 pages from Genealogical.com. It's packed with history, personal drama, military maneuvers, and peeks over the shoulders of American and British participants.

Not only does Crowder set the stage with background on why and how local militias formed in the colonies, he also provides maps, portraits, illustrations, and little-known but interesting details about the sparks that touched off a revolution. 

The engaging narrative unfolds in the present tense, providing a "you are there" feeling about history that continues to reverberate today as we celebrate America 250 in 2026. Crowder uses the voices of people on both sides of the conflict to describe what happened hour by hour, based on research in letters, historical archives, and other sources.

The book includes a section showing how the British described the Battle of Lexington and Concord. Crowder calls this "propaganda" and the spin is that British troops were fatigued but fought mightily during an "unfortunate affair" that was caused by the "ruthless and imprudence of a few people who began firing on the troops at Lexington." (p. 108)

The author also devotes nearly 4 pages to listing the names (and a biographical sentence or two) of those who were killed during those first 24 hours. 

Good bibliography, good index, fascinating insights into a series of battles that led to the American Revolution and ultimately, independence from the Crown. This book is most definitely worth reading!

Note: I received a complimentary copy from the publisher in exchange for an honest review, and the opinions in this post are entirely my own.

Thursday, May 7, 2026

Wartime Letters Going to a New Home, Part 2


I'm nearly finished curating my family history materials and finding safe new homes for artifacts that don't have a close, direct connection to my family. This is Part 2 of the saga of letters and cards written by a family in England to my family in the Bronx, New York, during World War II. (Part 1 is here.)

Last year, I decided the correspondence should either go to descendants of the letter-writers in England or be offered to a museum. Part 1 tells the story up to the point that the English family's descendants had been found by the Imperial War Museum in England, which was considering whether to accept the letters for study and archiving.

All descendants agree, now what?

My family and the letter-writers' descendants agreed whole-heartedly that the letters should go to the museum. We were excited at the prospect of the handwritten notes being professionally preserved and made available to researchers and possibly museum visitors.

Before the museum's management could make a decision about accepting the letters for their collection, they had one more question: What value would I put on the correspondence?

Valuing personal correspondence

Because the museum would be importing the letters from the United States to the United Kingdom, the value of the items must be declared.

I've had no experience with valuing items, so I looked at similar correspondence on eBay. Single letters from that period ranged in price from $10 to $50 or more--for a multi-page handwritten letter, sometimes with, sometimes without an envelope.

But as the museum pointed out to me, we know the background of both the letter-writers and the recipients, which adds to the value of the correspondence. Plus the letters themselves are in very, very good condition! 

Therefore, I suggested to the museum that we value the set of letters at $400.

Did the museum accept the letters?

Yes! The curator is happy, the families are happy. Just think: My ancestors and their ancestors will be in the collection and database of the American Air Museum at the Imperial War Museum at Duxford. We all couldn't be prouder.

Now the museum is making arrangements for express shipping these letters from New England to England. By the time you read this, I will have signed all the documentation and arranged for getting the letters to their new home across the pond.

What about your ancestors?

What I did with these letters is the equivalent of contacting the prestigious Smithsonian here in the United States--a really big stretch. Fifteen years ago when I began looking for new homes for family-history artifacts, I actually did email the Smithsonian about two items. I got no reply, for good reason: those artifacts were not truly rare enough to belong in the Smithsonian. I never made that rookie mistake again.

Back then, I didn't yet know how to analyze the artifact, research possible repositories, and match the artifact to the most appropriate one. I quickly learned how repositories manage their acquisition of donated materials and was able to adapt and format my offers accordingly. I have now placed literally hundreds of artifacts in the collections of dozens of repositories across the United States (most physically, some digitally). 

No dumpster, no recycling bin, no flea market, but safe places for items ranging from theater programs and old photographs to a leather war bond wallet and various historic newspapers.

In this particular case, the Imperial War Museum was actually the most appropriate match for the wartime correspondence from England. I aimed high and made a strong case, resulting in the letters being accepted by the museum. A happy ending indeed. 

PS: When I began curating my collection, it took a few non-responses and refusals to teach me how to successfully donate a family-history artifact to a repository. Be patient if you decide to donate something, and if you get a "no," ask where else you might try to donate. For more, see my book, Planning a Future for Your Family's Past.

Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Wartime Letters Going to a New Home, Part 1

Early this year, I wrote about wanting to donate a series of letters written to my grandparents and my mother by a family in England. 

The correspondence began when a widow walking her dog met my aunt Dorothy, a WAC serving in England during World War II. They struck up a conversation and this lovely widow began writing to Dorothy's parents (my grandparents) and to Dorothy's twin sister (my Mom). 

Keep or find a new home outside the family?

Because the letters have no particular ancestral significance, I saw an opportunity to curate my holdings by finding the letters a safe new home outside the family. Sis agreed with my plan to let the letters go. Always check with your family first!

Here's the process I followed (and you might follow) for finding a good new home for items that aren't absolutely vital to the family's history. Part 1 of 2.

Process for finding artifacts a new home

With my sister's agreement, I attempted to find any living descendants of the letter writers by looking at online family trees. My goal was to tell them the story of the correspondence, express my family's appreciation for their ancestors' kindness, and offer them the letters. (Note: there's more to this story in Part 2, no help needed now!)

I had no response from the owners of two online family trees with that family. Next, I found a more distant cousin with an online tree and contacted him. After months of trying to reach out to closer cousins, he got no response either.

We agreed it was best if these wartime letters go to an institution, to be preserved for the future. And we both had the same thought about an appropriate repository.

Match the artifact to the repository

To find the right repository, I first classified the letters: 

  • World War II period descriptions of the home front in England
  • Original letters and cards, including envelopes with stamps and postmarks
  • Written in England on thin wartime stationery
  • Mailed to individuals in America
  • Evidence of examination by wartime censors (see image above)
  • Written after meeting my aunt, a WAC serving in England
  • Ongoing contact from 1943-1945

The perfect place for these letters, we believed, was the Imperial War Museum in England. It is dedicated to documenting the "human experience of war and conflict and the impact it has had on people’s lives." The letters from England were a contemporary window into the everyday life of a family close to military bases where UK and US servicepeople were training or stationed in World War II. 

The correspondence revealed how this family coped with wartime shortages, detailed who was joining the military, who was at school, and how they felt about the war. These folks opened their home to my aunt the WAC and their hearts to my aunt's family.

What will the repository accept?

I checked the Imperial War Museum's guidelines about offering to donate an item. After noting their collecting priorities, I wrote an email to explain the letters and their significance in light of the museum's mission. I provided a bit of background about the letters being provoked by a meeting with my aunt the WAC, serving alongside the 9th Air Force in England (and later France and Belgium). All institutions want to know provenance, so this was part of my explanation.

I had already scanned all the letters and envelopes, and had ready a summary of the dates and who's who of the writers and the recipients. To support my request to donate artifacts, I attached a scan of one of the letters--including a tiny head shot of the letter writer! I hoped to attract the attention of the curator with this sample of handwritten letters from the heart. 

Helping shape a proposal

After nearly a month, I was delighted to hear from the curator of the American Air Museum, a part of the Imperial War Museum. She was interested in the family letters and especially intrigued that my aunt was the historian of her WAC detachment connected with US Air Force (the focus of this division of the Imperial War Museum). 

She quickly created an entry for my aunt on their museum website, drawing on a bite-sized bio I wrote for my aunt on Find a Grave. And after checking my aunt's history of the WAC unit, she began adding other WACs to the museum's database.

Next, the curator asked me for additional background to help her write a proposal that the museum's directors would read as they considered whether to accept the letters. I submitted a contextual summary of the letter writers' family situation, the recipients' family situation, my aunt's WAC career. Also I said I had no more letters beyond 1945, so it appeared unlikely that the connection continued after my aunt finally returned from Europe to her parents' Bronx apartment.

One more bit of due diligence

The museum's directors met and determined that before they made a decision about the letters, they wanted one more bit of due diligence: to check for any other descendants in England. They were able to locate two living descendants that I was not aware of--and those descendants quickly agreed that the letters written by their ancestors should most definitely have a new home in the museum.

Thanks to the museum, the descendants and I are now in touch with each other. We've shared more about the later lives of the correspondents. We are all excited that after 80-plus years, our families are connected again through the letters written during World War II.

To be continued: Did the museum say "yes" to accepting the letters for their collection? What happens next?

More in Part 2, here!

PS: I learned how to donate artifacts by trial and error. If I can do it, so can you!