National Library Week: I Heart My CT State Library

I 💙 my Connecticut State Library!

Just recently, the state library posted links to three of Connecticut military veterans records digitized by Family Search, as shown above. Instead of having to look through index cards, we can click on each of the hyperlinks to see individual images of documents about veterans in Connecticut. 

With my state library card, I can access a number of useful databases from home (in my bunny slippers if I wish), including Fold3 for military records and HeritageQuest for city directories, Census records, historical newspapers, and more. For free!

During National Library Week, please show your 💜 for local, state, and specialized libraries that offer so many genealogical resources!

VGA Party Features Free Genealogy Talks on April 27th

Mark your calendar for Sunday, April 27th: The Virtual Genealogical Association is celebrating its 7th birthday with a four-hour party of brief genealogy talks--free!

From finding ancestor photos to finding ancestors in newspapers, DNA details to non-English documents, this party covers lots of topics in short bursts. No talk will be more than 30 minutes long and many will last for just 10 or 15 minutes. 

My 10 minute live presentation is "Tune Up Your Cousin Bait" - scheduled for about 1:30 pm Eastern.

See the full list of speakers, register for the Zoom link here, and get ready for a fun Sunday afternoon of genealogy talks and prizes!

To use the discount code for VGA membership, please type the letters in caps, not in lower-case. See you on April 27th.

Two Blunt Obit Headlines for Frank Bentley Light

Researching my husband's 1c3r Frank Bentley Light (1853-1913), I was stopped dead in my tracks (so to speak) by the headlines announcing his death in Vacaville, California in 1913. The blunt language was not at all subtle but did accurately describe what happened to this man.

Above, a brief notice about "the carpenter who dropped dead" while working on a Union Ice Company building being identified as Frank B. Light. This item was picked up by the Sacramento Bee newspaper from the Vacaville newspaper. The headline "Was Frank B. Light" served as a correction because the initial report misidentified the dead man.

The full obit, which appeared on April 11, 1913 in the Vacaville Reporter newspaper, reads:

Dropped Dead. Frank B.  Light Succumbs to Attack of Heart Failure. Frank B. Light, a resident of this place for a number of years, dropped dead last Friday morning while engaged in unloading a carload of ice for A.M. Stevenson. The cause of death was heart failure. Deceased was a native of Indiana and was 60 years of age. He came to California with his parents in 1853, and resided in Santa Rosa for many years before coming to Vacaville. He was a carpenter by trade and a conscientious and upright man who had the respect and esteem of all who knew him. He was unmarried and leaves a sister Mattie Light and a brother L.E. Light. The funeral was held Sunday from the Baptist church and the interment was in Vacaville cemetery.

Frank lived with his sister Martha Ann "Mattie" Light (1854-1917) for years after their parents died. She worked as a dressmaker, according to her voter registration, but it's a good guess that Frank kept a roof over their heads with his carpentry and work in lumbering and as a laborer. Vacaville was a small town when they lived there--fewer than 1,200 residents until the 1920s--and probably everybody knew everybody.

After Frank died so unexpectedly, 112 years ago this month, Mattie went to live with their brother Lucien E. Light (1862-1918), also a carpenter. Sadly, Mattie became ill and died in 1917, followed just a year later by Lucien's death. I noticed that Lucien's obit was worded more gently than Frank's obit. The headline read: "L.E. Light Passed Away Last Friday," perhaps because this death (from Bright's disease) was nowhere near as sudden as Frank's death.

"Language" is this week's #52Ancestors genealogical prompt from Amy Johnson Crow.

Korean War Draft Cards Now on Fold3

No April Fool here! A few months ago, Fold3 began posting US draft registration cards from the Korean War era. These offer a unique window into our US male ancestors' lives in the middle of the 20th century.

So far, only cards from the states of Wyoming and Alaska have been put on Fold3, with more cards to be added during this year. Remember: a draft card is only a record of a man's registration with the local draft board--not proof of any military service.

I'm delighted to see all the detail on these cards: Full name, birth date (not just age), birth place, "someone who will always know your address" (FAN club), occupation, employer, industry, exact place of employment. Also marital status and specifically whether living with wife, separated, divorced, or widower--and whether this man is a father. On the back are physical details of height, eye/hair color etc. I already found someone in my husband's family who was, I was surprised to discover, living in Wyoming and had to register!

To learn more about this Fold3 database, see here. 

NOTE: Even though Fold3 is a subscription site, many US public libraries offer remote access with a library card. I get into Fold3 through my Connecticut State Library card. Check whether your library has Fold3 access and happy ancestor hunting!

Learn for Free: Big Genealogy Sites' Blogs and Videos

Even if you don't subscribe to big-name genealogy sites, you can read their blogs and learn from their YouTube channels for free. Lots of interesting tidbits about historical context, details about info that is and is not in particular data collections, surprising genealogy discoveries, backgrounds of notable historical figures, and many other insights. I especially like browsing blog posts, but informative videos are also readily available without charge.

Here are links to six blogs to browse:

• FindMyPast (blog is here) posts blog entries about history, building a family tree, starting your genealogy journey, customer discoveries, and more. Not just United Kingdom.
• MyHeritage (blog is here) posts blog entries about social history, family history customs, immigration, new collections, DNA discoveries, and more. Posts span the globe.
• FamilySearch (blog is here) posts often about new collections, using the Familysearch site/tree more effectively, involving family in genealogy, RootsTech developments, and much more.
• Ancestry (blog is here) posts about a broad range of genealogy topics and cultures, including strategies for uncovering female ancestry, DNA details, surnames, and more. 
• Fold3 (blog is here) posts blog entries about new collections, military history, wartime experiences, and more. Posts pertain mainly to US, but some also cover Australia, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom. Part of Ancestry.
• Forces War Records (blog is here) posts blog entries about military history involving the United Kingdom, World War I and II, women in the military, and more. Part of Ancestry.

Here are links to big sites' video vaults on YouTube. Of course, genealogical videos are also available on each proprietary site.

• Ancestry YouTube channel
• FamilySearch YouTube channel
• MyHeritage YouTube channel
• FindMyPast YouTube channel

Look for Kernels of Truth in Family Stories

I love a good family story. "Teddy was late to his own wedding because his horse ran off." "They gave Mom their unopened pay packets every Friday and she doled out a handful of nickels for the next week's subway fare." "Minnie wouldn't accept a suitor chosen for her by her family--she threw his engagement ring out the window."

These three stories were passed down in my mother's family tree. Too bad I can never confirm the story about the horse that ran away. And at first, the other two stories sounded a little outlandish, despite multiple cousins having heard variations of those legends from family history.

New World, new approach to household finances

Then I was introduced to two books that changed my understanding of these family stories. The first was Immigrant Women in the Land of Dollars by Elizabeth Ewen. The author looks at the lives of Jewish and Italian women immigrants on the Lower East Side of Manhattan during the peak years of immigration to America. Mothers and daughters learned to approach household finances in a different way when they moved to America. In the Old World, barter was an everyday experience. In the New World, cash was an absolute necessity.

The chapter on "Our Daily Bread" describes the common experience of the immigrant mother as strict organizer of household finance, demanding unopened pay packets from working children and only giving back the bare minimum of coins for each child to get to their job in between paydays. The rest was kept for rent, food, and other household expenses.

There was the kernel of truth in my family story: According to descendants, my great-grandma Lena Kunstler Farkas (1865-1938) stood at the door of the family apartment on payday with her hand extended, taking pay packets from teenage and adult children as they arrived home from work. 

Sometimes my great uncles Julius and Peter wouldn't have enough money for subway rides to and from work, so they would reportedly walk home from Manhattan to the Bronx on occasion. Speculation was that the boys actually dared to spend a nickel or two on some treat or diversion. Instead of asking for more from Lena, they walked home and said nothing. Lena was a strict disciplinarian and no one wanted to get on her bad side or they'd get a sharp rap on the head. Really.

Marrying the family's choice?

The second book I read was Bread Givers by Anzia Yezierska, a Polish-born Jewish author who immigrated to New York City with her family in the 1890s. This overwrought 1925 novel tells the story of conflict in a poor Jewish family transplanted from Poland to tenement life in lower Manhattan. I find historical fiction such as this sometimes offers windows into attitudes and challenges from past generations (allowing for excessive drama in the narrative).

This book really caught my attention when the father of the family rejected the men that three of his daughters want to marry. Instead, he arranged marriages to bring himself financial gain, even though the daughters would be unhappy. The youngest daughter resolves to only marry for love. And after many trials and tribulations for the family, that's what she does. New world, new approach to marriage. 

In my family, Lena's husband Moritz Farkas (1857-1936) earned little in his work in New York City, so everyone had to pitch in to keep the household afloat. Moritz was very fond of all his daughters, and each thought she was the favorite, by the way. When my grandma Minnie, the oldest daughter, fell in love with Teddy Schwartz, Moritz and Lena objected because they thought their daughter could do much better. That's when they arranged what they believed would be a more suitable match, a marriage they hoped would give Minnie a better life. 

Minnie would not even consider an arranged marriage. Knowing her as I did in later life, I can imagine her throwing the engagement ring out the window to show her final answer to the arranged marriage. Family story is that Peter and Julius scrambled down the stairs of the tenement to the sidewalk to search for the ring, but no one has any idea whether they found it and who kept it. With Minnie as the role model, every one of her siblings who married chose his or her own partner. It was a new world and the family learned to adapt. Kernel of truth!

Did Teddy's horse really run away on the morning of his wedding to Minnie? It doesn't really matter...what matters is that there are kernels of truth to explain the stories passed down through the decades, and to remind descendants that ancestors were more than names and dates on a family tree. Thinking of my great-grandma Lena, who collected paypackets to finance her household, on the 87th anniversary of her passing, in March of 1938.

Married Twice Because His Mama Wanted a Pastor to Preside

My husband's first cousin once removed, George Ellery Wood (1885-1976) was married for the first time on this date 117 years ago. As shown above, George E. Wood was the groom, Amanda L. Krueger (1890-1947) was the bride. They claimed to live in Detroit, Michigan, where this marriage was recorded, but in reality both lived in Toledo, Ohio. 

George was an iron worker, he wrote on this marriage license, and he and his bride both listed their parents and ages correctly. Directly above, the part of the marriage ledger where the officiant is named: a Justice of the Peace.

The family story is that George and Amanda eloped to Detroit on this Saturday in March, returning home the same day. George's mother was not happy. George was her oldest child, and she insisted the couple be married again in Ohio, where they actually lived, and by the clergyman of her choice: Reverend George Candee, an ardent abolitionist. 

And so on Tuesday, March 31, 1908, George and Amanda stood in front of Rev. Candee and were again married. Above is the proof. Interestingly, the bride and groom claimed on this marriage license application that neither had been previously married, perhaps because George's mom didn't want anyone to know about the elopement ten days earlier? Also note by the star on the image above, the notation "don't publish please." Hmmm? 

In any case, the couple had three children together and remained married for nearly 39 years until Amanda's death from heart problems in 1947. She was buried in Forest Cemetery, Toledo, Ohio. When her husband George died in 1976, he was buried by her side.

This "historic event" of two marriages in 10 days was discussed by descendants for decades. My post is for the #52Ancestors challenge by Amy Johnson Crow.

Remembering Maternal Grandma Minnie and Her Age Fibs

Born in what is now Berehove, Ukraine, my maternal grandma Hermina "Minnie" Farkas (1886-1964) shouldered a lot of family responsibility from the moment she set foot on the S.S. Amsterdam to sail to America. Her parents were already living in a tenement on the Lower East Side of New York City, and Minnie was sent, with an older brother and two much younger siblings, to join them. She celebrated her 15th birthday on the trans-Atlantic voyage in November, 1901, not knowing what her new home would look like but with high hopes for the future.

Minnie in America

In New York, Minnie worked during the day at a tie factory owned by an in-law and went to school at night to learn English. At the end of every week, Minnie and her siblings handed their unopened pay packets to their mother, who doled out carfare to each adult child and kept the rest for household expenses. 

Minnie met her future husband Theodore "Teddy" Schwartz (1887-1965) in a Hungarian deli. Despite resistance from her parents, she married him in October, 1911. From then on, Minnie would not just help Teddy in the store, she would also raise three children AND sew clothing for her siblings, nieces, and nephews AND cook Hungarian specialties for family meals. She worked long and hard for decades. 

Only after Minnie and Teddy sold their small dairy store in the 1950s did they have time and money to take a honeymoon! Minnie had happy moments, but as the years passed, she was disillusioned and disappointed because her life did not play out like the rosy future she had dreamed of when she arrived in 1901 as a hopeful immigrant teenager. The more I research her and talk with older relatives who knew her well, the better I understand why she was not "warm and fuzzy" although she was a responsible grandma who pitched in when needed.

Noting Minnie's age changes

On their marriage certificate (shown at top), both Minnie and Teddy are shown as 24 years old. That might be one of the last times Minnie told the truth about her age.

In the 1920 US Census, she was supposedly 30 (actually she was 34). In the 1925 NY Census, she was supposedly 35 (actually 38). In the 1930 US Census, she was supposedly 40 (actually 44). In the 1940 US Census, she was supposedly 52 (actually 53). In the 1950 US Census, she was shown as 63--correct age!

When Grandma Minnie died of heart problems on March 20, 1964, it was the end of an era for the entire Farkas family. Disheartened, and with his health deteriorating, Grandpa sadly passed away 14 months later.

Remembering Grandma Minnie with affection during Women's History Month.

Celebrating Hubby's Irish Ancestors

My husband can wear green with great pride today because it looks like he has a number of Irish ancestors!

Shehen or Shehan

Hubby's great-great grandparents were reportedly born in Ireland, according to the 1841 UK Census. 

John Shehen or Shehan (1801?-1875) and wife Mary (1801?-1874) left Ireland and moved to Marylebone by 1834, where their three children was born. John was a laborer and Mary was a laundress. Sadly both husband and wife seem to have died in a poorhouse. 

Smith

Hubby's 5th great-grandparents were also born in Ireland. William Smith (1724?-1786) and his wife Jean (1724?-1805) may have been from Limerick. Their children were born in Cumberland County, Pennsylvania. 

Jean and William's son Brice Smith got "Ohio Fever" and moved to Fairfield County, Ohio before 1820. The name Brice was passed down in the family tree to this man's grandson and great-great grandson. 

Larimer and Gallagher

Robert Larimer (1719?-1803) was born in the North of Ireland, according to the genealogy booklet Our Larimer Family. Sailing to North America to seek his fortune, he was shipwrecked and brought to Pennsylvania, where he was forced to work for years to repay his rescuer. 

Robert eventually walked away from his master and married Irish-born Mary Gallagher (or O'Gallagher) (1721?-1803). They, too, got Ohio Fever and brought their family to Fairfield County, Ohio. Mary and Robert were hubby's 5th great-grandparents.

McClure

Actually, the McClure line originated in Scotland but relocated to County Donegal at some point before Halbert McClure's time. Halbert (1684?-1754) married Agnes in County Donegal and they sailed to Philadelphia together with other family members sometime in the 1740s. 

They all walked to Virginia, where they bought land and kept buying land as their sons married. Their grandson caught Ohio Fever and his descendants moved further west to Indiana. Agnes and Halbert were hubby's 5th great-grandparents. 

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Looking Back Five Years to the Start of the Pandemic

From my personal family history: My husband and I had wonderful plans for 2020, including a much-anticipated cruise, two family graduations, and a reunion with relatives from all around the country. The calendar was filled with genealogy events, volunteer activities, visits with family and friends, music, and so much more.

By March 2020, Covid-19 began to spread rapidly and aggressively around the world. In New England, where I live, in-person events evaporated and life ground to a halt in the middle of the month. The next few months were tense and difficult.

An everyday errand like going to the supermarket was suddenly a bit frightening. Not just because being around people might mean exposure to a potentially deadly disease but also because many food and household items were in short supply or completely gone from store shelves. The photo at top shows toilet paper and paper towel shelves partially stocked, months into the pandemic. Eerily empty streets for weeks. No traffic reports on radio or TV because no traffic. 

Never had I ever heard about Zoom and yet within weeks of the shutdowns, I was using it to participate in a book club, genealogy meetings, and family conversations. Weeks into the pandemic, the calendar remained empty except for Zoom dates and important medical appointments.

Several times, I threaded my sewing machine and stitched face masks. I learned to cut hair at home. Investigated various streaming services for viewing variety. Hubby and Sis and I walked with friends and neighbors on nice days, observing social distancing guidelines. We also formed pods with folks we knew well, gathering indoors with doors/windows wide open to paint rocks, play games, celebrate holidays and birthdays. For treats, we ordered specialty foods to be delivered from Zabars and other places.

Our community organized outdoor concerts that were well attended and much appreciated. We watched the family commencement ceremonies on YouTube and clapped when our graduates received their diplomas. In short, we found moments of good news and contentment amid all the uncertainty and sadness.

The very instant a vaccine was available, hubby and I and Sis booked appointments and were grateful to do so. We continue to keep our boosters updated. Looking back, I feel saddened that I can never get back the time lost but I also have a very deep appreciation for how fortunate my family and I have been. These days, our pantry is always filled with food and paper products just in case! And thanks to Zoom, family conversations, cultural programs, and genealogy presentations are now only a few clicks away.

How do you remember your pandemic experience in 2020? Please write it down for yourself and for your descendants. 

Upcoming Presentation about Fold3 for WAGS

The Whittier Area Genealogical Society is hosting my next live webinar, about how to navigate the Fold3 website. 

Come learn about the hundreds of millions of records available on Fold3, see step by step how to search effectively, and find out how to create or enhance free Fold3 memorial pages for ancestors. 

Many US public libraries offer free access to Fold3, by the way, so check whether you can access from home with your local library card. I can search Fold3 via the Connecticut State Library, no subscription necessary.

Click here to learn more and to receive the Zoom link. See you on March 15th!

Female Ancestors in NY Get the Vote in 1917

 

New York State granted women the right to vote on November 6, 1917. Women were soon allowed to show up in person to add their names to the list of voter registrations all around the state. 

Ancestry.com has released a new database of digitized voter registration ledgers from Manhattan. TY to the sharp-eyed folks on the New York City Genealogy FB page for pointing this out! 

For International Women's Day and Women's History Month, I prioritized looking for my female ancestors who lived in Manhattan during the period covered by this new database (1915-56).

Women registered in 1918

I was happy to see that some of my female ancestors in New York City showed up to register the first time they were legally permitted to do so. 

The image at top shows how many people in all were added to the registration ledger for a particular election district over a two-day period in February 1918, counting my female ancestors too. Yet the ledger was officially known as the 1917 voter registration list. Hold that thought.

Let me say that I'm very proud of the women who registered in February, 1918 so they could vote for the first time in a New York special election held during March, 1918. 

Check the source carefully

This is also a reminder to check into each source carefully. As I said, this particular voter registration ledger was titled 1917 and correctly transcribed that way by Ancestry.

However, as shown in the excerpt at the top and on individual pages of the scanned ledgers in database, women (including my female ancestors) who registered in 1918 were added to the 1917 listing. 

The lower part of the summary of registered voters notes that as of May 1918, 140 women registered to vote in this specific election district.

So I would indicate 1918 as the date of my female ancestors' voter registrations, despite the official name of the ledger being the 1917 voter registration list. 

Wood Siblings: Farm "Boarders" and Students

Looking at my husband's Wood family tree: On this day in 1891, Byron Thomas Wood was born, the fourth of five children of Charles Augustus Wood (1862-1895) and Martha Hale Wood (1864-1912). His siblings were Charles Elton Wood, Ethel Carrie Wood, Louisa Lucy Wood (died young), and John F. Wood (died young). The family lived in Toledo, Ohio, where Charles was in a carpentry business with two brothers. 

Get out your hanky

Sadly, Charles died of tuberculosis in 1895, only 32 years old. His widow Martha was left with three youngsters under the age of 10. 

Also sad: just a year later, Martha entered the Toledo Hospital for the Insane--not necessarily for mental illness, but possibly a chronic illness because she was in that hospital for 14 long years. Martha died there in 1912, only 48 years old, of uterine cancer and loss of blood. 

Wood siblings stay with other families

When Martha was hospitalized, the three surviving children were sent to live with other families. The oldest child, Charles, lived with the Bollinger family on their farm in Richland, Ohio, where I found him in the 1900 US Census as a "student." No doubt he also helped out on the Bollinger farm. 

In 1912 he married one of the Bollinger daughters, Nellie. They had no children. It seems Charles joined the US military as soon as he was eligible, because he told the WWI draft registration board that he served as an electrician in the Navy for nearly 9 years. Remembering Charles Elton Wood, 1886-1974.

Younger brother Byron and younger sister Ethel Carrie lived with the Kiehl family on their farm in Weston, Ohio. In the 1900 US Census, they are marked as "boarders" with the Kiehls and also shown as students. Surely they too helped with farm chores. Even after Mr. Kiehl died, Byron remained with Mrs. Kiel in the 1910 Census as a "tenant." In 1914, Byron married Vesta M. Craft, worked as a farmer, and they had 10 children together. Remembering Byron Thomas Wood, 1891-1968.

Ethel Carrie, enumerated as a student on the Kiehl farm in 1900, got married in 1908 at the age of 20. The groom was an auto mechanic named Clay H. Focht who had been widowed five months earlier. They had two children, divorced in November of 1923, remarried on January 1st, 1924, and had another child together before splitting up again a few years later. Remembering Ethel Carrie Wood Focht, 1888-1969.

How different the lives of these Wood siblings would have been if their father had lived longer and their mother had stayed healthy.

"Siblings" is this week's #52Ancestors challenge from Amy Johnson Crow.

Don't Wait! Obtain Original Documents Sooner, Not Later

What documentation are you missing for key ancestors such as those in your direct line or specific ancestors of particular interest?

I suggest inventorying birth, marriage, and death records in your possession and prioritizing the process of ordering what you're missing. Try to obtain original documents sooner rather than later.

Why? Many municipalities are increasing fees, some are limiting access to vital records, and a few have a backlog of orders that translates into a long wait.

Also order a copy, not an extract, if you have a choice. This way you can see the actual document, not selected data retyped by a clerk who viewed the document and extracted info to send you. You never know what interesting details will be left off the extract! 

New York ugh

My immigrant ancestors settled in New York City/State, and my dad-in-law passed away in New York State. Inventorying my documentation last year, I realized I was missing a key ancestor's death cert from a county north of the city.

I was lucky: I waited only nine months for that death cert, despite having been told the wait would be 6-10 weeks. Other genealogy folks have waited years, literally, and some are still waiting long long after the state cashed their checks.

As I write this, New York State is considering tighter restrictions on access to vital records as well as ridiculously higher fees to obtain records. The genealogy community has protested, but the situation is not pretty at this moment.

In some cases, you can either send to the New York county or city where birth/marriage/death took place or actually visit the county/city clerk to obtain the vital record. For more info, here's the Family Search wiki page about New York State vital records.

Ohio yay

My experience with Ohio has been the opposite of my experience with New York. My husband was born in Ohio, as were many of his ancestors, and it has been much easier to obtain vital records. 

Some death records are available from Ohio History Connection, at a fee lower than the government charges. I've used this source many times in the past decade. Detailed info about Ohio vital records are on this Family Search wiki page. 

When I ordered a birth cert and a death cert from Cleveland recently, I received certified printed copies in less than two weeks! The death cert included the coroner's report, which explained the many health problems that contributed to the man's untimely death before age 50.

Worth the investment

Vital records for selected ancestors are a worthy investment IMHO and can be kept with your family history documentation to be passed along to descendants. They are full of clues and can help fill in the gaps in our knowledge of ancestors and their family relationships.

Please start the process of obtaining any original vital records sooner rather than later. If record access is restricted in the future, or fees skyrocket, or wait times stretch out, you won't be shut out. 

Ready for RootsTech Online

Although I'm not going to be at RootsTech in person, I'm going to be watching a number of the sessions, some live and some recorded. 

If you haven't already registered (free!), sign up here because that gives you access to the handouts as well as the chat with participants from around the globe. 

This year, my playlist will include some refresher classes (see excerpt from my schedule above,"Mining the Census Parts 1 and 2) and sessions to help with specific challenges in my genealogy research (such as the pre-1850 US research program shown in my partial class schedule above).

Best of all, recorded sessions will be available for viewing later, so I can return to a class to review or watch something I missed live.

Looking forward to RootsTech 2025!