My maternal grandmother (Minnie Farkas Schwartz) was a "charter member" of the Farkas Family Tree, a family tree association in New York City founded in 1933 by the adult children of Hungarian immigrants Moritz Farkas and Leni Kunstler Farkas.
The Farkas Family Tree met 10 times a year, and members began planning the 25th anniversary several years prior to the actual anniversary date. They decided on a weekend in June, 1958 for their getaway to a resort hotel in the Borscht Belt of New York State and then contributed money at every meeting so that the resort deposit was paid well in advance.
Thanks to prior planning, members who lived out of town arranged to attend this special celebration. This included Minnie's youngest brother Fred Farkas and his wife Charlotte, who lived in Michigan. Their son Richard Farkas, born on August 1, 1935, had joined the US Naval Reserves in 1956 to become an aviator and was stationed in Texas. Still, he was able to come to the celebration with his parents and sister.
The family tree paid for a photographer to snap a formal group portrait featuring everyone all dolled up, with one black-and-white 8x10 inch print distributed to each family. You can see Richard in the red oval in this group photo, wearing his crisp white uniform. For the entire family, it was a much-anticipated opportunity to be together and celebrate with full hearts over a three-day weekend.
This is the one and only time I would have met Richard. I wish I could say I have any memory of him, but I was a tiny tyke. Possibly I might have noticed he was the one person in uniform, but that's about all, unfortunately.
Sadly, three months later, Richard's plane crashed during a training exercise in Texas. I'm sorry to say that he died in the accident, barely 23 years old. Today would have been his 90th birthday if he had lived. So I'm remembering cousin Richard on his special day and wishing I could have known him.
