Friday, January 6, 2023

Heirloom Pin from Mom-in-Law I Never Met


During the holidays, I passed down this lovely silver pin to a member of the youngest generation in the family tree. It was given to me by my sister-in-law on the occasion of my marriage to her brother some years ago...and I wanted to share that story, with the pin, so the recipient would know the happy history of this graceful heirloom. 

Telling more stories

My late mother-in-law Marian McClure Wood (1909-1983) was the first owner of this pin. I'm sad to say she passed away before I joined the family. But fortunately, her granddaughter remembers how Marian loved to wear pins, and she also told that story as the pin's new owner listened intently. 

In fact, the family has a number of photos of Marian wearing a pin prominently on her lapel. Not this particular pin, but others. She had personal style as well as an artist's eye. The family has told and retold stories about the small animal statues she made while taking lessons from a world-class ceramicist. Plus I have a box of her needlework creations (tablecloth, gloves, doilies) to share with descendants in the future. My goal is to share heirlooms while telling stories so recipients get a sense of why these items are important to family history.

Keeping her memory alive

How I wish I could have met Marian McClure Wood, a talented, creative woman. I would ask about her creative endeavors and her early life as a much-loved only child. Of course I would ask about her memories of ancestors, with a few specific questions about an in-law who married three times. 

Mom-in-law Marian would probably have been amused to know her son married another Marian, who is a needlework enthusiast and a wearer of pins. 

Most of all, I hope she would be pleased that her creations are still treasured by the family and accompanied by stories about her life, keeping her memory alive for years to come.

"I'd like to meet" is Amy Johnson Crow's first #52Ancestors prompt of 2023. 

4 comments:

  1. What a beautiful pin. It is so nice that your family still treasure her pins.

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  2. Lovely story and such a great idea to pass on heirlooms with their story. So many lose their meaning with each new generation. Perhaps we should consider new heirlooms too - things that say something about us or have a special meaning to us in our lifetime.

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  3. What a beautiful family heirloom Marian! You know how much I truly love these wonderful heirlooms that we all treasure so dearly

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  4. Lovely story and such a great idea to pass on heirlooms with their story. So many lose their meaning with each new generation. Perhaps we should consider new heirlooms too - things that say something about us or have a special meaning to us in our lifetime. Paul Chiddicks

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